The Visitation 12/21/2015 "You come back a different person" This is what my daughter said to her brother today.  He came back from being with his mother, and she just does not understand why he changes.  I spoke to them both, and this is part of the commentary.  It used to be when my daughter spent more time with their mom, both children would come back DIFFERENT and target me.  Now, my ex-wife is abandoning my daughter and not getting her on visitation dates; as she grew and grows older, she understands more and is less tolerant of my ex-wife's broken promises and lack of support, that means she does not get to spend time with her mom. So, my son came back DIFFERENT and started to target my daughter, and I spoke to her and said, "Now you see what I have been going through with both of you."  And, I told my son, as you grow older and become her age [the age of my daughter], you will see what your sister sees. I am hoping and praying for y'all whom have to endure DIFFERENT child(ren) each time they see the other parent.  God Bless.