I DESERVE TO COMMIT SUICIDE, YOU SAY

It was about 10 months ago, and an 18 year old, young adult, committed suicide on the Power Hockey team. 

He took the path I almost took. 

At 18 years of age, I was struggling, being a young adult with a disability.  

I was informed of the death by a person whom was struggling at the age of 19 with his own disability.  

An Admirable young fellow, pursing his college education from a wheelchair.

Should he have the right to die to, as others proclaim.

My mom’s had the choice, she could have aborted me.

My mom’s had the choice, she could have abandoned her child born with a disability.

Past the 9 months, she raised me.

Past the 9 months, she instilled a desire to have all her children work and complete their college educations. 

7 children total; 5 of the 7 have college degrees, including myself.

One went to college and the military and dropped out.

One was unable to attend college due to a learning disability acquired from Medical Malpractice.

Those were the two that did not complete their education.

I believe those are good odds. 

Two of the children are veterans; one from the Marines and One from the Army.  The drop out, the Third, was dishonorably discharged for hitting his commander. 

Those are pretty good odds, and the one with a learning disability has worked the entire time while in North Carolina as a Mechanic, and he is “Damn Well Good At It”.

I followed the American Dream, that my mom’s instilled with me.

A Master’s in Political Science, A Sociology BA, 2 years worth of Law School, about Three years worth of Theology, and about 1 years worth of Education Training (Teacher), and 6 years worth of Social Worker Training (Child Welfare Social Work Courses in North Carolina).  Total School Debt $140,000.00  And, Unemployed for the Past 6 years.  You go figure, is there a need to employ the disabled?  I did what was asked of me, for what, to be unemployed?  Can you help remedy the problem? Or, are you okay with the issues? 

Do I deserve to commit suicide, like many feel I should? 

Do the Disabled Veterans Deserve to Commit Suicide?

You tell me the Answer, Your Answer, Send me an email direct, and tell me to “Die” or “Got to hell” or “Here I have a Job for you.”  

The veterans tell me the only jobs they find is working with and in veteran agencies.

The disabled tell me the only jobs they find is working with the disabled, and there are very limited disabled organizations in North Carolina.  Should I be so limited? 

Here is my email address:  Rolavarria012015@gmail.com  Send me an email with your thoughts,  or comments, etc.  God Bless.  

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Fue hace 10 meses, y a un menor de 18 años, adultos jóvenes, se suicidó y era parte del equipo de Hockey en sillas de ruedas con poder.

Él tomó el camino casi yo tome.

A los 18 años de edad, estaba luchando, siendo un joven adulto con una discapacidad.

Se me informó de la muerte por una persona que estaba luchando de la edad de 19 años con su propia discapacidad.

Un joven admirable, que ejercen su educación universitaria desde una silla de ruedas.

¿Él debe tener el derecho a morir, como otros proclaman?

Mi madre tenía la opción, ella podría haber abortado de mí.

Mi madre tenía la opción, ella podría haber abandonado a su hijo con una discapacidad.

Después de 9 meses, ella me crió.

Después 9 meses, ella le inculcaron el deseo de tener a todos sus hijos trabajar y completar su carrera universitaria.

7 niños en total; 5 de los 7 tienen títulos universitarios, entre los que me incluye.

Uno de ellos fue a la universidad y los militares (el ejército) y lo abandonado.¿

Dos de ellos son veteranos; uno de los Infantes de Marina y del ejército. La caída, el tercero, fue dado de baja de forma deshonrosa por golpear a su comandante.

Las probabilidades son bastante buenas, y el otro con una discapacidad de aprendizaje ha trabajado todo el tiempo, mientras que el vives en Carolina del Norte y trabajas como un mecánico, y él es "maldito bien y bueno en su carrera".

He seguido el Sueño Americano, que mi mamá me inculcó.

Tengo un máster en Ciencias Políticas, y un BA en Sociología, y 2 años de la Escuela de Derecho (para ser abogado), aproximadamente tres años de teología, y de alrededor de 1 años de educación y capacitación (de ser Maestro), y 6 años de la formación de los trabajadores sociales de bienestar infantil (cursos de Trabajo Social en Carolina del Norte). El total de la deuda de $140,000.00 de la escuela y educación, desempleados durante los últimos 6 años. ¿Vaya figura, hay una necesidad de emplear a los discapacitados? ¿Hice lo que me pedía, por lo que estar desempleado? Puede ayudar a solucionar el problema? O, ¿Le parece bien con los problemas o esta situacion?

¿Merezco a cometer suicidio, como muchos piensan que debo?

¿Los veteranos discapacitados merecen a cometer suicidio?

Usted decirme la respuesta, su respuesta, envíeme un mensaje de correo electrónico directo y decirme "morir" o "ir al infierno" o "Aquí tengo un trabajo para usted."

Los veteranos me dicen los únicos trabajos que encuentran está trabajando con agencias y veterano.

Los discapacitados decirme los únicos trabajos que encuentran está trabajando con los discapacitados, y hay muy pocas organizaciones de discapacitados en Carolina del Norte. Debo ser tan limitado?

Aquí está mi dirección de correo electrónico: Rolavarria012015@gmail.com enviarme un correo electrónico con tus pensamientos o comentarios, etc., que Dios le Bendiga

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Resources for Learning Disabilities/DSM IV and DSM 5

DSM V – In effect as early as 10/2015

A second practice shift is indicated by the abandonment of the IQ-­Achievement discrepancy criterion, as well as the omission of cognitive processing deficits in the diagnostic criteria. The discrepancy model has served as the fundamental conceptualization of LD for decades, despite robust evidence that it is conceptually and statistically flawed.

The diagnosis requires persistent difficulties in reading, writing, arithmetic, or mathematical reasoning skills during formal years of schooling. Symptoms may include inaccurate or slow and effortful reading, poor written expression that lacks clarity, difficulties remembering number facts, or inaccurate mathematical reasoning.

http://www.dyscalculia.org/diagnosis-legal-matters/dsm-v-codes

1. Specific learning disorder with impairment in reading includes possible deficits in:

• Word reading accuracy
• Reading rate or fluency
• Reading comprehension

DSM-5 diagnostic code 315.00.

Note: Dyslexia is an alternative term used to refer to a pattern of learning difficulties characterized by problems with accurate or fluent word recognition, poor decoding and poor spelling abilities.

2. Specific learning disorder with impairment in written expression includes possible deficits in:

• Spelling accuracy
• Grammar and punctuation accuracy
• Clarity or organization of written expression

DSM-5 diagnostic code 315.2.

3. Specific learning disorder with impairment in mathematics includes possible deficits in:

• Number sense
• Memorization of arithmetic facts
• Accurate or fluent calculation
• Accurate math reasoning

DSM-5 diagnostic code 315.1.

http://psychcentral.com/disorders/specific-learning-disorder/

Learning Disorders

315.00 Reading Disorder
As measured by a standardized test that is given individually, the patient's ability to read (accuracy or comprehension) is substantially less than you would expect considering age, intelligence and education.
This deficiency materially impedes academic achievement or daily living.
If there is also a sensory defect, the reading deficiency is worse than you would expect with it.
Coding Note
On Axis III code any sensory deficit or general medical condition (such as a neurological disorder).

315.1 Mathematics Disorder
As measured by a standardized test that is given individually, the patient's mathematical ability is substantially less than you would expect considering age, intelligence and education.
This deficiency materially impedes academic achievement or daily living.
If there is also a sensory defect, the mathematics deficiency is worse than you would expect with it.
Coding Note
On Axis III code any sensory deficit or general medical condition (such as a neurological disorder).

315.2 Disorder of Written Expression
As measured by functional assessment or by a standardized test that is given individually, the patient's writing ability is substantially less than you would expect considering age, intelligence and education.
The difficulty with writing grammatically correct sentences and organized paragraphs materially impedes academic achievement or daily living.
If there is also a sensory defect, the writing deficiency is worse than you would expect with it.
Coding Note
On Axis III code any sensory deficit or general medical condition (such as a neurological disorder).

315.9 Learning Disorder Not Otherwise Specified

http://www.dyscalculia.org/diagnosis-legal-matters/dsm-iv-ld-diagnostic-codes

Specific Learning Disorder Specific learning disorder combines the DSM-IV diagnoses of reading disorder, mathematics disorder, disorder of written expression, and learning disorder not otherwise specified. Because learning deficits in the areas of reading, written expression, and mathematics commonly occur together, coded specifiers for the deficit types in each area are included. The text acknowledges that specific types of reading deficits are described internationally in various ways as dyslexia and specific types of mathematics deficits as dyscalculia.

http://www.dsm5.org/documents/changes%20from%20dsm-iv-tr%20to%20dsm-5.pdf

Particularly when Mathematics Disorder is associated with high IQ, the child may be able to function at or near grade level in the early grades, and Mathematics Disorder may not be apparent

until the fifth grade or later.

DSMIV page 51

There is generally a combination of difficulties in the individual's ability to compose written texts evidenced by grammatical or punctuation errors within sentences, poor paragraph organization, multiple spelling errors, and excessively poor handwriting.

DSMIV page 52

315.9 Learning Disorder Not Otherwise Specified

This category is for disorders in learning that do not meet criteria for any specific Learning

Disorder. This category might include problems in all three areas (reading, mathematics,

written expression) that together significantly interfere with academic achievement even

though performance on tests measuring each individual skill is not substantially below

that expected given the person's chronological age, measured intelligence, and ageappropriate

education. 

DSM IV page 53. 

Particularly when Reading Disorder is associated with high IQ, the child may function at or near grade level in the early grades, and the Reading Disorder may not be fully apparent until the fourth grade or later.

DSM IV Page 49.

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Remember, Recueldate, a denial of special services for your child, si servicios para su nino eran negada, that is not the end, eso no es el fin.  Puedes apelar su caso.  You can appeal the denial.   In Wake County, use, Family and Community Connections.  919-4317334, Dani White.  FACC@WCPSS.NET .  En el condado de Wake en Carolina de Norte, debe comunicarse con Family and Community Connections.  919-4317334, Dani White.  FACC@WCPSS.NET .   God is Good.   

I am Sorry for the Way I Look.

I AM SORRY FOR THE WAY I LOOK.

You said, “Just look at you.  You have tennis shoes on, sweat pants, and a shirt on.”. 

Question:  “When I rolled into your office? What level of education did you think I had?”

Answer:  “It is obvious from what you said, you are well educated ………. Yes I thought you only had a high school diploma.”

Yes, I am sorry for not living up to your expectations. 

I want the Rolex Watch, as I discussed with you.

I want the Car, the Cadillac, as I discussed with you. 

I want someone to come cut my grass, and repair my home, as I discussed with you. 

I would love to have someone come to my home and be paid to clean my home and cook (AND PAID OUT OF MY OWN SALARY).

I would love to have a closet filled with clothes that are suits and ties. 

I would love to have all my clothes picked up and dropped off by the cleaners

I would love a home that cost about half a million dollars.

I would love to have vacations in Europe and abroad. 

I would love for my minimum wage to be $35.00 per hour, and would rather a six figure salary at minimum in the $170,000.00 range. 

I want it too. 

I have never been fired from a job because I did not “dress right”. 

I have never been fired for not brushing my teeth.

I have never been fired for smelling so bad.

I have always gone to work with the proper attire. 

And, AS I DISCUSSED WITH YOU, the only problem I had, that caused the end of my last job, is I wanted to use a visitor entrance without a step, versus an employee entrance with a step.  And yet and still, the victim was blamed (me), as we discussed. 

I am sorry I did not meet your expectations; it is one of those blaming the victim moments.

I have the $140,000.00 in student loans. 

I have the Master’s and was well on my way to the PHD or JD. 

I did what society asked me to do, when I was declined from signing up for the military.

It was 1987, shortly after high school. I went to sign up for the military.  I did not want to be a burden to society.  I wanted to fight and work for my country.  I did not want to be on a government check. 

I entered to ARMED FORCES recruiting offices on Flatbush Avenue and Glenwood in Brooklyn New York.  I asked them to sign me up.  They took out their biggest book with all the excluding conditions, and asked me what I had, scoliosis was one condition.  They looked it up, saw the exclusion, and off I went sadden.    They initially thought I was going there for veterans benefits after having served my country.

So, off on my second try at school I went.  Now I can say that I am a "Certified Educated Idiot" because I have the degrees to prove it. 

As we discussed, I was told, if you get your education, you will get a job, you will have a career, you will have the nice home, the nice, car, the manicured lawn, the home with the artist paintings, and the lush rugs, and the meals cooked and prepared.  That is what I was promised, despite my disability.

The reality is I am living in poverty.  The reality I am struggling to survive.

I am sorry that you presented as feeling somewhat repulsed by my presence.

I am sorry I do not go out to play gulf.

I am sorry that the majority of the people like me, statistically and factually, live in poverty.

I am sorry that the majority of veterans commit suicide, once they are disabled and have fought for their country. 

I am sorry that the highest crime rates are near the military bases. 

I am sorry that from 1990 until present, even with the ADA, the unemployment rate among the disabled is still 2/3.

I am sorry that it was only in the 1990s that the first veteran nursing homes were established in this state.

I am sorry that this state has one of the highest concentrations of veterans. 

I am sorry that the “tax incentive” to hire disabled veterans are not enough to get veterans employed.

I am sorry that veterans tend to be only hired by veteran agencies and organizations, while, the disabled too tend only to be hired by disabled organizations. 

I am sorry I did not come to your office with the fancy suits and the fancy shoes, and, showed the true state that many disabled people and veterans live in in this state.

I am sorry and hoping that you actually focused on the issue. 

The shirt I typically wear has the “DO NOT ENTER EMBLEM”. 

Had I come to your office with a suit and tie, would that make the difference.  Perhaps, I needed a check in hand, a bribe, ticket to the BROADWAY SHOW, theater, etc. 

I am thankful to those legislative assistants that welcomed me with open arms. 

And, I am sorry, to those LA’s that feel like the LA I met this past Monday.  The feeling of being disgusted, while we talked frankly.  “How could you come looking like that?”  What is wrong with you?  She told me her horror story of being in the office and having to talk with an evidently psychotic person, and the unfortunate reality of having to greet the public and have “All types of People” in her office.  It takes a thick skin to deal with the general public, but, having feelings of love and compassion is different from varying level of distaste, incredulity, and disdain.  As you look for answers in a Public Administration and/or Policy Degree, remember humanity. 

The better ones are the ones with the suits and ties and “The Right Look”. 

A disabled person will never have the right look.  And, it was not my choice to have this “LOOK”.  They will always look to the wheelchair first, and talk to the person standing behind me, as if I do not talk or am able to communicate for myself.  That is why I tend to “come alone” to the LA offices, because it is a lifetime of Every Able Bodied person talking to the other person that came with me. 

I was born with cerebral palsy; that is a birth defect.  I did not choose to abide in a young, healthy, beautiful/handsome body. 

I got the impression when you made the comment about the “right to choose”, that you would have aborted me, if I was in your belly.   That is just my impressions while we discussed the appropriateness of government intervention in the lives of citizens.  I am sure my mom, and many others, did not decide, when they got married, “I want a nice disabled child …….. with medical problems galore, etc”.  Those are not the attributes mom’s tend to talk about. 

I was born during a racists era, where, on the books in my country of birth, the 1960s, Eugenics Laws were on the books, in my Beloved Puerto Rico. It was enacted legislation. 

I have a BA in Puerto Rican Studies (Sociology), because I wanted to know my roots. 

I did not like what I found.  I found death among my people by the oppressors.  The Mozart and Roman and Greek History was not mine. I know my heritage.  I am educated.

As we discussed, it is not the first time I was told, “You will not get anywhere with this.”

On the week before, I was told by another LA, with the nice plush red rug and lamp in her office, you will not get anywhere.  They are all up for re-elections and many will not be here. 

I would hope that the ISSUE outweighs the LOOK.  And I am thankful and sorry to those LA’s whom opened the door for me and accepted me into their offices warmly. 

Can we continue to have veterans commit suicide?

Can we continue to have the disabled unemployed?

Is six years of unemployment proper?

You tell me please, what is the answer?  

All I asked for is affirmative employment legislation.

You were gorgeous, you were pleasant, you were FRANK, as we had a FRANK discussion.

It was not a heated discussion but being Honest and I thank you for your time.  And, I honestly am sorry to all the other LA’s that asked me to come back and meet with their representatives.   I asked that they present the issue and if one of the representative would “go with it”.  I am not looking for a moment in the spotlight, that is why I chose to ask only that LA’s present the issue to the Representative.  I do not want to be the Poster Boy.  I have too many people already looking at me whom say “He has a right to die.”  The Poster Boy need not be Jerry’s Kid.  I hated that concept.  But, if I have to meet with representatives because they need a poster boy, then I will.  If they need the face of Poverty and Education, I can step up to the plate.  But, I implore and plead with all representatives and LA’s to just look at the ISSUE and come up with a solution.  

I am sorry; it was not my drug addiction that caused me to be disabled.  It is not something my mom did or did not do.  I am proud of her for not choosing abortion or to abandon her child whom was born DIFFERENT.   She instilled the idea of “GETTING MY EDUCATION” and not following the path that others choose; drugs, suicide, sex, alcohol, crime, and immorality, etc. 

I am sorry for the shirt.

I am sorry for the sweatpants.

I am sorry for the tennis shoes.

I am sorry for the wheelchair.

I AM SORRY FOR THE WAY I LOOK.

 Dedicated to the North Carolina Legislative Assistants of North Carolina.

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Working With the Man in the Mirror:  Pastoring Churches and the “Mission”

I came to North Carolina (2001), and, diligently did a search for neighborhood churches. 

Of course, it was for a White Church, a Black Church, and a Hispanic Church. 

I found all three, Cary Alliance, Elevation, and La Primera Iglesia and Caratini’s Church.

Caratini’s church was really small.  They had a store front listed as their address off of Cameron Village.  They had services at an old movie theater in Raleigh near where Hamricks used to be.  They rented one of the theater rooms, and preached. 

Caratini’s ministry focused on direct help for people, to include purchasing and housing people.  I saw the church grow.  I left the church when I got married, my ex-wife did not speak Spanish.  And, the church grew and grew, and, now it is one of the biggest churches in Raleigh.  His focus remained to directly help people by providing them services.  And, right now, he has one of the biggest homeless feed programs along with a whole host of other programS that is the foundation of that church growth.  The church is huge and attendance in the thousands. 

Some pastors inherit congregations, as they assume the pastoral responsibility.  They assume a position over a large congregation.  That “inheritance” can be good or bad.  The focus should be a mission to do the will of God, and, not continue things as usual.

“They are coming to Wendell”, was the proclamation.  Who is “they”?  Aren’t “they” already in Wendell?  Who is “coming”?  Our church will grow as we welcome them.  But, “they” are here I think.  They, the people Christ wants us to witness to, are in the poor sections of Wendell.  They are over by the 231 Junction, the trailer homes that are impoverished.  They are in Robinwood and Oliver House, subsidized elderly and housing.  They are in the trailer homes that are hidden away near Cover Bridge and 231 Junction, and Morphus Bridge Road.  They are by Chaplin Street.  Who are they?  They should be the poor.  Otherwise, “they” must be the well-to-do, that will come to live in the newly built houses, those near/on Wood Green and other parts of Wendell like Wendell Falls.  Help those that can help themselves?  Help them?  Welcome them?

Readers used to be incorporated into the church.  They are coming. but how many are here?  How many church vans have wheelchair lifts to bring the disabled to services on Sunday?  How many “old granny moms” and “old granny dad” that can no-longer drive come to church on Sunday.  Oh, that’s right, a church van pulls up to Oliver House every Sunday Morning “to invite them to worship” whom cannot walk or drive to the church on Sunday’s and Wednesday.  It was nice this past Sunday seeing a minister preach whom really needed a reader to help him, but that was a reminder of the past (for the past three weeks I have been attend two separate church services on Sundays at two different churches).  The past is where the majority of the congregation could not read and readers were needed.  The past is where I attended services where people could not hold their bibles or needed someone to turn the pages for them, but they worshipped and loved God.

This past Sunday, I wanted so bad to go to the front, during services, and be the only wheelchair in the front (HBC).  But, it is not through dramatic and disruptive acts.  God tends to gently ask us to do His will.  That will, if I am not mistaken, is doing what Jesus did, taking to the streets to go to the ones whom could not attend church.  He went out and healed the sick, crippled, maimed and insane, etc.  Or perhaps, the church should be a placed where the crippled and infirmed should not be because of their “blemish”.  Two contradictory theologies here.  Having a place at the Table of David, or/versus, Pharisees and Sadducees and the pomp and glory of church with no action.  I thought the wedding was “not attended” and it was commanded to “go out and get those” whom were not invited.  A cripple and homeless person is rarely invited, but, should church continue the policy. 

To think and reflect, is the church representative, with every Sunday attendance, of what the church was charged to do.  Can you count the number of wheelchairs and canes during the morning services?  Are they more than 1%, one, two, or three?  I would think that if you have at least 1 for every 25 attendees, then, you are doing good?  Think about it like this, somebody’s grandma and grandpa is not making it to church.  Some impoverished child down the block is not making it to church.  If you can get one person from Robinwood and one from Oliver House, then, that would be a start, I would think. 

Being a pastor is an awesome responsibility.  You tend to lead by example.  If you are okay with the church vans just sitting idle on Sunday, then so be it.  Just do not say, “Nobody ever said anything.”  Charge the deacons.  Charge the elders.  If they do not heed, you might try going out yourself at least once a month.  I was so happy and have been so happy when the same guy whom helped me with the communion table, months to a year ago, is there to hold the door open as I wheel down the ramp at high speed at HBC. 

There are different focuses of different churches.  Some of them have awesome special needs programs.  Are you content with what the CHURCH is doing and how it looks? 

An attempt at a new ministry is being made.  The focus is the Eastern Part of the State.  Further out from Wendell.  It is trying to help others thereat.  Why focus on areas where they is already a “truck load of services”. 

He said, “That is why we need somebody like you.”  You see the vision, you see the wheelchairs. I responded with “is that not the mission for the church”.  What does the pastor see? 

Churches have changed.  The populations tend to be younger.  The feeling tend to be the elderly need to be in nursing homes to be visited on Sundays.  Not, while the elderly are in nursing homes, we should bring them to church on Sunday. 

Yesterday, I sat and heard that it was only in the 1990s, that this big military state began to have nursing homes for Vets.  So, it was decades before someone saw the need in North Carolina.  It is 2016, with all the handicapped equipped vehicles, you would think that every church would “have one”,  Hum?  My step dad sold two last year for $2000.00 each.  I am sure “too expensive” would be one argument.  “Seek and ye shall find”; “knock and the door shall be opened”.  2016 and still not every church “has one”, a van to pick up those elderly.  Those attachments to the “back of vans” do not cost so much.  You can start with the cheapest route, less that $350.00, to make your non-handicapped vans capable of carrying at least one wheelchair  http://www.calibex.com/Wheelchair-Carrier/shop-html?nxtg=5ed0a1c050d-4308A09AEBC046C4 .  SEEK AND YE SHALL FIND.  CARRY SOMEBODY TO CHURCH.  Just make sure you get a trap to cover the chair if it rains. 

Working with the Man in the mirror can be difficult at times.  Sometime, we really cannot see what “that man” looks like,  That is where and when we need others to “wake us up” and smell the coffee and see the reality.  God Forbid, but, when you talk about “how many people” attend church, whom use a wheel chair, “Ask a DEEPER QUESTION, how many preachers and ministers you have on your staff that Use a Wheelchair?”  Just about all NC churches have NONE.  YOU ARE NOT WELCOMED TO THE PULPIT BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT WELCOMES HERE.  DO NOT ENTER.  IS THIS THE ‘ROUNDED SYMBOL’ PREACHED ABOUT ON SUNDAY?

 Dedicated to a Good Pastor, HBC

Ayuda Para Las Problemas de Su Nino

ADHD, ADD, BED, LD, SED, Abused, Molested, and “Troubled” Children Needing Services

¿Qué debe hacer? Su hijo está experimentando problemas en el funcionamiento en el hogar, en la escuela, en la iglesia, en la comunidad, y/o en otros lugares. El niño está actuando. El niño no puede concentrarse. El niño tiene problemas de aprendizaje. El niño fue expuesto a abusos y no saben cómo lidiar con él. Eres un interesado y padres amorosos que quieren ayudar a su hijo.

En primer lugar, para aquellos en Durham, Wilson, Nash, Franklin, Edgecomb, y los condados de Wake, aquí hay algunos enlaces lista de proveedores:

[Translation]

What do you do?  Your child is experiencing problems functioning at home, in school, at church, in the community, and/or elsewhere.  The child is acting out.  The child cannot concentrate.  The child is having problems learning.  The child was exposed to abuse and does not know how to deal with it. You are a concerned and loving parent wanting to help your child.   

First, for those in Durham, Wilson, Nash, Franklin, Edgecomb, and Wake Counties, here are some provider list links;

[Aquí estas la lista de centros para ninos]

https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B2HY8Hn57K53bkwtRjhDS2o5NW8

https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B2HY8Hn57K53dEFrcEpOVlRVd0k

https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B2HY8Hn57K53RU1XTENwUkhTTTA

Foletos y Informacion para Padre(s):

http://www.addrc.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/ParentGuide20-20Spanish-2.pdf

http://www.cincinnatichildrens.org/assets/0/78/1067/2709/2807/2829/2835/2837/2839/6f1b705c-abf5-4de6-bc71-2766a17966d1.pdf

http://www.parentcenterhub.org/wp-content/uploads/repo_items/spanish/fs19sp.pdf

http://www.parentcenterhub.org/wp-content/uploads/repo_items/spanish/fs5sp.pdf

https://docs.google.com/viewer?a=v&pid=sites&srcid=aGFycmlzb25idXJnLmsxMi52YS51c3xwYXJlbnQtb3V0cmVhY2h8Z3g6NDRhN2IzMDUxNmY5NDViMA

http://www.nctsn.org/sites/default/files/assets/pdfs/ChildSexualAbuseFactSheetFINAL_SP.pdf

http://www.nctsn.org/sites/default/files/assets/pdfs/ChildSexualAbuse_QA_SP.pdf

http://www.nctsn.org/sites/default/files/assets/pdfs/emotionlaimpactoflegalsystem_sp.pdf

http://www.tapartnership.org/docs/familyGuideToChildWelfare-spanish.pdf#tab=general'

https://www.childwelfare.gov/pubPDFs/tipsheets-2016_sp.pdf

The first step should be is to talk with your doctor about the concens regarding your child. Schedule an appointment.  Many parents start with the school first in trying to address the needs of their child.  Schools primarily are only concerned with Learning Disability Diagnosis.  Most other diagnosis’ must come from your child’s doctor.  

The list we provided here are for some NC doctors and providers and information for the Spanish Speakers.  So, please use these lists to help find a doctor or provider for your child. 

[Translation]

El primer paso debería ser es hablar con su médico acerca de las preocupaciones acerca de su niño. Debe de hacer una cita. Muchos padres comienzan con la escuela primera para tratar de atender las necesidades de su hijo. Las escuelas sólo se preocupan principalmente con diagnóstico de discapacidades de aprendizaje. La mayoría de las otras diagnosis debe venir desde el médico de su hijo.

Las listas que tenemos aquí proporcionados son para algunos médicos de NC y proveedores e información para los hispanohablantes. Así pues, utilice estas listas para ayudarle a encontrar un médico o proveedor para su niño.